Most parents will recognise one of these scenes. A two-year-old who happily lives on milk and biscuits but turns away the moment dal-chawal comes out. Or a nine-year-old whose tiffin comes back home untouched, day after day, followed by a packet of chips at 5 pm.
Often, it is just a phase. Sometimes it is a pattern worth a closer look. And the bigger picture tells us Indian families have good reason to pay attention.
The latest National Family Health Survey (NFHS-6, 2023–24, provisional results) shows real progress: stunting among children under five has fallen from 35.5% to 29.3%. Yet that is still nearly one child in three, and underweight has barely moved, from 32.1% to 31.8%. The last national measurement of anaemia (NFHS-5, 2019–21) found 67.1% of children aged 6–59 months, anaemic. At the same time, 3.4% of under-fives were already overweight in NFHS-5, and the number is climbing.
Undernutrition and overnutrition now sit side by side, often in the same city, sometimes in the same classroom. Which brings us to the question so many parents ask: When do I need a pediatric nutritionist, and what will they actually do?

A pediatric nutritionist specialises in how children eat and grow, from pregnancy and breastfeeding all the way through the teenage years. The work spans the entire 0–18 continuum: the first feeds, the first spoon of ragi, the school tiffin, the board-exam months.
A pediatric nutritionist works alongside your paediatrician, not instead of one. The doctor diagnoses and treats illness and orders tests. The nutritionist turns that medical picture into everyday meals, routines and habits that a real family can sustain.
Children are not small adults. Their needs change every few months, and how they eat is shaped as much by the family as by the food. A pediatric nutritionist brings:
Age-specific knowledge: what a 7-month-old, a 4-year-old and a 14-year-old each need, and why.
Feeding linked to development: when to move from purees to mashed to finger foods, and how chewing, self-feeding and appetite develop.
A family lens: a child's plate is decided by parents, grandparents, house help and school. Real change happens when everyone is on the same page.
A pediatric nutritionist looks at the whole child, not just the number on the weighing scale. Here is what that support usually covers.
The nutritionist checks that your child is meeting the general growth parameters for their age, the height and weight your paediatrician also tracks. But numbers are only one part of the picture. Equally important questions are:
Is your child active, curious and energetic through the day?
Are they sleeping well and passing stools comfortably?
How much screen time is there, and does it overlap with meals?
How does mealtime feel at home: relaxed, or a daily negotiation?
A simple diet recall of what your child ate over the last day or two fills in the rest.
Nutrition begins before the first spoon of solids. Support with latching, supply worries, the mother's own diet, returning to work and expressing milk can make the first six months far less stressful. This is where Dr Vidhi Beri's own journey in maternal and child wellness began.
Starting solids is one of the biggest feeding transitions. A good weaning plan covers:
First foods: ragi porridge, thick mashed dal, soft khichdi, mashed seasonal vegetables and fruits, and well-cooked egg for non-vegetarian families. Thick, mashed dal gives far more nourishment than thin dal water.
Iron first: after six months a baby's iron stores run low, so iron-rich foods like ragi, dals, green leafy vegetables and egg matter early.
Textures: moving from smooth to mashed to soft finger foods, so chewing skills develop on time.
What to hold off on: no added salt, sugar or honey before the first birthday, and cow's milk not as the main drink before one.
Selective eating is common between ages two and five. The aim is not to win the battle over one bowl of sabzi; it is to raise a child who is comfortable around food. That means responsive feeding: parents decide what, when and where food is served, and the child decides whether and how much to eat. No force-feeding, no bribes, and no feeding in front of a phone or TV.
Iron, vitamin D, calcium and vitamin B12 deficiencies are common in Indian children. When your doctor confirms a deficiency through blood tests, the nutritionist builds it into everyday meals:
Iron: ragi, bajra, rajma, chana, green leafy vegetables, eggs and meat, paired with a vitamin C source like amla, guava or nimbu for better absorption.
Calcium: curd, paneer, milk, til and ragi.
Vitamin D: regular outdoor play in the sunlight, with supplements only if prescribed.
Vitamin B12: dairy, eggs and fish; vegetarian families need to watch this one closely.
Supplements are always given as advised by the doctor, never on guesswork.
Some children need a more tailored plan: for being underweight or overweight, constipation, food allergies or intolerances, an active sports schedule, or the long hours and stress of exam season.
A nutritionist helps you build tiffins that come back empty: easy to eat, not soggy by lunchtime, and balanced. Just as important is bringing grandparents, house help and other caregivers on board, so the child gets the same message at every meal.
Healthy growth is much more than a child who is "heavy enough" or "tall enough". Weight and height matter, but a thriving child shows it in many other ways too. A well-nourished child:
Meets the general growth parameters for their age, with steady progress over time rather than sudden jumps or dips.
Is active and energetic: runs, climbs, plays and has the stamina to get through school and an evening in the park.
Eats a balanced variety: grains, dals or other proteins, vegetables, fruits and dairy show up across the week, not just the same three favourites.
Is emotionally healthy: generally cheerful, settles to sleep, and copes with the ups and downs of the day.
Is learning to eat intuitively: recognises when they are hungry and when they are full, and is slowly developing likes and preferences of their own.
Has a great relationship with food: enjoys mealtimes, feels pleasure while eating, and does not associate food with pressure, guilt or reward.
That last point matters more than most parents realise. A child who eats a little less lauki but sits happily at the family table is often building healthier lifelong habits than one who finishes every bite in tears. Eating should feel like nourishment and joy, not a test to pass.
Each stage of childhood has its own priorities. Here is a quick guide.
| Age | What matters most | Indian-plate ideas |
|---|---|---|
| 0–6 months | Exclusive breastfeeding; no water, ghutti or honey | Breast milk on demand; support for the mother's own diet and rest |
| 6–24 months | Complementary foods alongside continued breastfeeding; iron and texture progression | Ragi porridge, mashed dal-rice, vegetable khichdi, mashed banana or papaya, egg yolk then whole egg |
| 2–5 years | Family foods in child-sized portions; a predictable rhythm of meals and snacks | Mini thali with roti, dal, sabzi and curd; fruit, chana or makhana as snacks |
| 6–12 years | Tiffins that get eaten; calcium and protein for growth spurts | Stuffed parathas, besan chilla, idli or poha in the tiffin; milk or curd daily |
| 13–18 years | Iron for girls once periods start; fuel for sports; body image; no skipped breakfasts | Sprouts, eggs, paneer, dates and til; a proper breakfast before school |
You don't need to wait for a problem to seek guidance; prevention is the whole point. Still, these are common signs that a little expert support could help:
Your paediatrician mentions that weight or height is not keeping pace for your child's age.
Your child eats only a handful of foods well past the age of three, or gags on most textures.
Frequent colds and infections, low energy, or looking pale and tired.
Ongoing constipation or hard, painful stools.
Rapid weight gain, or a heavy reliance on packaged snacks, biscuits and sweetened drinks.
Mealtimes have become a daily battle, or your child eats only in front of a screen.
A teenager who skips meals, diets on their own, or worries a lot about their body.
If your child is losing weight, vomiting repeatedly, has blood in the stool or seems unwell, see your paediatrician first. Nutrition support works best once medical causes have been checked.
Dr Vidhi Beri's work rests on three pillars: Movement, Nutrition and Mindfulness (MNM). Food alone doesn't build a healthy child. How a child moves, and how they feel while eating, matter just as much.
Children need at least an hour of active play every day. Cycling, skipping, a game of catch, running around the society park: all of it counts. Movement builds bones and muscles, sharpens appetite, improves sleep and lifts mood. When in doubt, choose the playground over the phone.
The simplest guide is one most Indian homes already know: the thali. Aim for a plate that has:
a grain (roti, rice, millet)
a dal or other protein (paneer, egg, chicken, sprouts)
a sabzi
a bowl of curd
a fruit, during the day
Keep it seasonal and local wherever you can. Your grandmother's kitchen was often more balanced than any packaged "kids' food".
This is where children learn to enjoy food rather than fear or fight it.
Calm mealtimes: switch off screens and sit together as a family whenever possible.
No food as a reward or punishment: "finish your sabzi and you'll get a chocolate" teaches children that vegetables are a chore and sweets are a prize.
Let children listen to their bodies: serve, don't push. Trust them to stop when they are full.
Settle before sleep: a few minutes of gentle humming or Aum chanting together at bedtime can help a child's body and mind wind down. Children usually love the vibration of the sound, and it becomes a calming family ritual. This draws on Dr Beri's work in sound healing, where she uses Aum chants and beej mantras.
Diwali is about celebration, and sweets are part of the joy. Banning them usually backfires. A few easy swaps keep the festivities sweet without the sugar overload:
| Instead of | Try |
|---|---|
| Store-bought mithai heavy on sugar and khoya | Homemade laddoos with dates, nuts, til and a little jaggery |
| Fried chips and namkeen | Roasted makhana, chana or peanuts with a pinch of chaat masala |
| Cola and packaged juices | Nimbu-pani, coconut water or buttermilk |
| Chocolate boxes as gifts | Dry fruit and seed mixes in festive packaging |
Serve sweets as part of a meal rather than as constant grazing, and let children enjoy them without guilt. One laddoo eaten happily is far better than three eaten in secret.
As the founder of Vidhi Beri Wellness, Dr Beri brings together evidence-based nutrition, Ayurveda and behavioural psychology, drawing on years of work in maternal wellness, breastfeeding and infant and child nutrition across hospitals, schools and rural communities. A typical consultation follows five simple steps:
History: pregnancy, birth, feeding journey, health concerns and family routines.
Growth and wellbeing check: general growth parameters alongside energy, activity, sleep, digestion and mood.
Family food audit: what is actually cooked, bought, packed and snacked on at home, and who is feeding the child.
Two or three achievable goals: small, specific changes the family can genuinely sustain, not a rigid diet chart.
Follow-up: reviewing what worked, adjusting what didn't, and building on progress step by step.
The goal is never a perfect plate. It is a child who grows well, moves freely, and sits down to eat with joy instead of pressure.
At what age should I see a pediatric nutritionist?
Any age from pregnancy onwards. The most common turning points are starting solids at six months, picky eating between two and five years, school-going years and the teen growth spurt.
Will a pediatric nutritionist put my child on a diet?
No. For children the focus is on balanced family meals, healthy habits and a positive relationship with food, not restriction.
Do I still need my paediatrician?
Yes. The nutritionist works alongside your paediatrician, who handles diagnosis, tests and any medicines or supplements.
If you would like support with your child’s feeding routine, food variety or nutrition through different stages of development, book a child-nutrition consultation with Dr. Vidhi Beri or enquire about the Infant and Toddler Nutrition programme.